dying ??? Regrets of The Dying - THE 7 passages of LIFE - What you need NOW is a SUPPORT CIRCLE

Thanks to Mikael Howerton, for a good reminder

 

RELATIONSHIPS over 60
(at almost 65, 64th year)

• Susan Lynne Schwenger
  the internet can be a very invasive type of place - where a person can shoot you a message at 2am; and; expect you to respond to them - like you know them - when you've never even meet them - also; you can get people who have 14 different ads runnings on 14 different types of social media / dating sites etc; can one actually think that type of person who is chatting to 14 people at one time - and; access to chat to 14 more x 14 more x 14 more - is actually a serious type of person - if the person is that illegiable why are they NOT meeting someone at their local grocery store squeezing tomotoes ??? or; picking a cut of beef ???
  
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  Susan Lynne Schwenger
  and; then i know growing up in a huge city (toronto) sleeping with people was a very dangerous thing, because NOT all people in that city were straight - and; subject others to a lot of dangers (being in my 64th year, i saw a lot of people end up with aids, prior to myself being sexually active; and; quite frankly, maybe i entered into a very serious mode of caution
  
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  Susan Lynne Schwenger
  then; you have both the good looking women / and, great lookin men - and; they sleep with so many people - that they end up 'covered in etheric threads' FROM the energies picked up from being with so many other people - this is actually a big turn-off, i realized today - that a person i wasted my 20/30s with ; had 7 children, with 4 women - but; didn;t want to have any children with me - they liked our relationship because it was GOOD - SO, it was going to be good for as long as it was good - and; when he wouldn;t make any kind of proper commitment to me - i left him go; and; that was when he created 3 more kids; with 2 more women - after already having 4 kids with 2 x's - people really complicate life
  
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  Susan Lynne Schwenger
  NOW, i'm not so sure; i'd want a man with the complications of kids / health issues (lots and lots of people in their 60s, have many different probems) recently; i see a woman i know; meet a nice guy; 4 years together; they move in; in the 5th year he has a stroke; and; becomes 60% disabled - now; the big question - should she become his nurse-maid; and; retire early from her job; and/or; is her actually his children's problem ? (i know; that sounds really brutal) but; getting into relationships at 65% is like playing russian roulette

 

#WiSEWORDs
The most painful lessons i've ever had to learn...
is that other people are NOT like me.
And, if you expect others will show up...
the same way, you show up.
You will get disappointed, over and over again !!!
~give people enough rope,
and, most people will hang themselves.
~susan lynne schwenger
@13linesofspirit @in12d


#WiSEWORDs
The most painful lessons i've ever had to learn...
is that other people are NOT like me.
And, if you expect others will show up...
the same way, you show up.
You will get disappointed, over and over again !!!
~give people enough rope,
and, most people will hang themselves.
~susan lynne schwenger
@13linesofspirit @in12d