dying ??? Regrets of The Dying - THE 7 passages of LIFE - What you need NOW is a SUPPORT CIRCLE

1. Profligate-Temperate Monad: One person is wildly extravagant while the other is a tightwad.

 

1. Promiscuous-Impotent Monad: This monad is based on sex. The Promiscuous desires a lot of sex to be balanced, while the Impotent’s response to that person’s demand is lack of sexual desire. Promiscuous learns to see a relationship as more than sex — emotional bondedness. Impotent learns to relax and experience their sexuality.

 

1. Rescuer-Rescued Monad: The Rescued individual is being helped by the Rescuer with a circumstance that they cannot possibly handle. Generally a life-altering experience, such as being saved from drowning. (Emotional, physical, intellectual)

 

1. Sibling Monad: (Brother-Sister, Sister-Brother, Brother-Brother, Sister-Sister) Helps you relate to men and women as friends. This relationship can be created with individuals that are not your actual brother or sister. Often children will do this monad to experience loving another. (Ex: Warren Beatty/Shirley Maclaine)

 

1. Slanderer-Slandered Monad: One person who doesn’t like another does whatever they can to slander them. Generally based on lies. The Slandered learns what they can do to survive the slander. The Slanderer learns what it feels like to attack another in this way.(Ex: Michael Jackson, Political campaign smears)

 

1. Slovenly-Meticulous Monad: The slob and the neat person. Teaches tolerance. (Ex: The Odd Couple – Oscar Madison and Felix Unger)

 

1. Tandem Monad: It takes many lifetimes with another to do this monad. Both individuals will do almost exactly the same things at the same time.

 

1. Teacher-Student Monad: The word teacher is generally a title we apply to those men and women who lead academic courses and dispense a particular curriculum. In a way, life itself can be thought of as a grand university and various times certain moments and or ongoing situations act as the classroom. The teacher imparts something to the student, something that the learner does not know but which is life-affecting. It can be simple information, wisdom or the proverbial “hard lesson.” Frequently, however, the relationship does appear in some setting where there is a more formal set of roles. Spouses or siblings could play this rare occasions, and so can child to parent, but build into this form is an element of authority to novice, refined molding course. It is common, that the student, at least at a personality level, is quite uninterested in being taught, but the Essence has paired them with this person for a reason. The life information is generally of the intellectual type which means that a person comes away with both new data, but a fresh perspective about a life arena or learning itself. Not necessarily a teacher/professor, but can be. (Ex: Helen Keller/ Ann Sullivan)

 

QUESTION: What are the 3 stages of self karma ?

Is self karma what leads you to finding the authentic, real & true you without false personality aka maya ?

Michael has said, we only have self-karma left to process, and, philanthropic karma to come,

from ancestral connections, and, from group connections aka people who have agreements

to support the ideas & knowledge that maybe created by the group i am/or, will be involved with ...

are there any personal suggestions from Michael about how to work through the rest of this self-karma ???

FROM MICHAEL:

In terms of Self-Karma, there are really only 3 stages:

Negative, Positive, and Neutral. Self-Karma is any division within the self that is fully aware of the positive stance

vs the negative stance, and the battle between those until there is resolution.

Usually one takes an extreme negative or extreme positive stance on the self-karma

and is plagued by the draw of the opposite.

For instance, a person may enjoy smoking (positive),

but find himself pulled in the direction of knowledge that says that it is bad for him,

unhealthy, stinks, and may be harming those around him (negative).

The issue is not whether he stops smoking, or not, but the resolution of that divide within him.

Resolving the self-karma (neutral) would be in either quitting smoking,

or embracing the fact of smoking and all that it entails.

Resolution always comes from the full embrace of either the positive or the negative aspect of the issue,

which naturally drops the issue into neutrality.

The best approach that we have found for discovering and resolving self-karma

is to start with a list of three issues that you feel divided about.

Once you've listed those three issues, you can then write out the positive side and the negative side of the issue.

From there, you can explore which side is truer to your nature and preferences and begin the work of embracing that side.

The more self-karma an individual has, the harder it is to be true to oneself, we would agree.

In terms of where both of you are in your work with self-karma,

we would only say that each of you are fairly honest with yourselves to the extent

that you would agree that you still have internal struggles over certain issues.

Those issues are known to you and rather than our doing the work of interpreting and listing these

, we would suggest you start with the process we described above

and we will work with you along the way, if you choose.

Troy-Michael June 2009
the13thbridge@aol.com

 

SOMETiMES...
you lose 'The Plot'
and, sometimes 'The Twist' of a Dagger
is what was needed to 'Open The Heart'
so many, had closed.
And, The Story Line morphs
iNTO the magic of:
much gathering more
on every plane of her eXistence...
Where the old 'i am that i am'
becomes dwarfed by 'we are that we are'...
and, is NO longer danced as the simple 'i's'...
and, The Plot starts to thickens...
and, energetically iT eXpands...
and, The a'musing sage...
opens her eyes,
discards the club, and, picks up a diamond,
discards the spade, and, she opens her heart.
- susan lynne schwenger
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