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1. Master-Slave Monad: One person wants to own, control and manipulate another. The Slave gets to see how they want to respond to the experience. This monad is about control and surrender, which includes how one handles their power. This involves learning about boundaries. (Ex: Pimp/Prostitute relationship) (Ex: Patricia Hearst/William DeFreeze (Sinque)

 

1. Mate Monad/Marriage Monad: This is a very strong life-long mate agreement, which teaches unconditional love. The individuals generally feel mated immediately. Very strong learning experience. (Ex: Al and Tipper Gore)

 

1. Parent-Child Monad: One person feels the need to parent and look after someone else. Very strong and bonded relationship. This monad is not necessarily with your own biological children, although it can be. The Parent has a very fulfilling parenting experience. The Child gets the best possible imprinting they can have. Often people will choose a “spiritual” mother or father to have this experience. (Categories: Father-Son, Father-Daughter, Mother-Son, Mother-Daughter) (Mother/Queen Elizabeth-Son/Prince Charles)

 

1. Promiscuous-Impotent Monad: This monad is based on sex

 

1. Passionate-Repressive Monad: This can also be described as a passion mode/repression mode relationship. Many couples have this monad. Repressive can teach the Passion individual to be more appropriate, and the Passion teaches the Repression individual to relax, lighten up and have more fun. (Ex: Morticia and Gomez Addams. The Accidental Tourist – Geena Davis/William Hurt)

 

1. Passive-Aggressive Monad: One person is hot-tempered and confrontative and the other is calm, cool and resigning. Two different fighting styles and teaches each one to learn about how to handle anger.

 

1. Penitent-Confessor Monad: This is where someone reveals themselves as a private act of venting or contrition. For the Penitent the opportunity to release themselves of the burden is often quite a relief though puts them on notice of having trusted someone. Indeed, it is the foundation of the Catholic Churches role for the confessional and its power to ease the parishioners conscience.

 

1. Pivotal-Facilitator Monad: The Facilitator intensely impacts and causes great changes in the Pivotal individual’s life. (Ex: The person that breaks up a marriage.)

 

1. Pivotal-Facilitator Monad: The Facilitator intensely impacts and causes great changes in the Pivotal individual’s life. (Ex: The person that breaks up a marriage.)

 

1. Player-Pawn Monad: One person manipulates another without his/her knowledge. This usually involves playing out power issues. (Ex: Dynasty)