Remembering Myself the departed There’s gotta be a way to do it without all that dying business. When we respond from that centered place inside us, we find ourselves accepting every experience we experience (that is, we’re comfortable being who we are) . . . Including losing our way, getting mean, being nasty and just being numb to life and everyone around us . . . so by creating an enormous quantum leap into a reality we know as our true home -- being being loving and kind to ourselves.